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5 вещей, которые НЕ НАДО делать, когда ты узнал о своём ВИЧ+ статусе

5 вещей, которые НЕ НАДО делать, когда ты узнал о своём ВИЧ+ статусе

Для людей, только что узнавших о своём ВИЧ+ статусе, нет ничего страшнее, как осознание того, что они уже «не кондиция». Не смотря на то, что Вы тот же человек, те же самые интересы, вкусы, качества, — по внутреннему ощущению, Вам кажется, что «потенциальная любовь» может воспринять Вас по-другому.

Это далеко от правды. Вы всё тот же человек, хотя и на осознание этого факта может потребоваться значительное время. Тем временем, мы расскажем о 5 вещах, которые НЕ СТОИТ делать, пока Вы сами не разберётесь что к чему в новой жизни.

1. ЧУВСТВО СТЫДА - ЛИШНЕЕ

Само собой, будет чувство небезопасности. Потребуется время для того, чтобы Вы смогли обсудить свой положительный ВИЧ статус со своим партнёром. Но никогда не стыдитесь, Вам нечего стыдиться. Отношения с ВИЧ+, является лишь вопросом научного и материально-технического обеспечения, а не вашим недостатком.

2. НЕ СПЕШИТЕ

Точно также, как и не нужно себя сдерживать, так и не стоит спешить в отношения только потому, что они могу показаться спасением. Во-первых, положительных ВИЧ статус может сделать Вас одиноким. Вы можете подумать, отношения именно то, что вам нужно, чтобы преодолеть эти чувства. Не правда. Прыжки в неправильные отношения могут иметь ровно противоположный эффект. Быть одному может быть очень тяжело, но быть в плохих отношениях - может быть абсолютным адом.

3. НЕ ОГРАНИЧИВАЙТЕ СЕБЯ ТОЛЬКО ВИЧ+ ПАРТНЁРАМИ

Ваш статус не определяет Вас, как и не диктует выбор партнёра. Отношения должны быть основаны на одинаковых интересах, вкусах и качествах, а не на том, какую терапию вы принимаете и когда. Сегодня, ВИЧ (при условии лечения) не является препятствием к нормальной сексуальной жизни. Пользуйтесь этим.

4. НЕ НАДО ЦЕНИТЬ ПАТНЁРА ТОЛЬКО ЗА ПРИНЯТИЕ ВАШЕГО СТАТУСА

Он не делает Вам услугу, поэтому не относитесь у нему также! Слишком часто, люди с ВИЧ ведут себя так, как будто им невероятно повезло, что их любят несмотря на ВИЧ+ статус. Тем не менее, такой ход мысли может привести вас к тому, что Вы будете всё терпеть, только потому, что он тебя любит. ВИЧ не является Вашим плохим качеством, и Ваш партнёр не ждёт от Вас благодарности только за поддержку - это лишнее в отношениях.

5 вещей, которые НЕ НАДО делать, когда ты узнал о своём ВИЧ+ статусе

5. НЕ СОМНЕВАЙТЕСЬ, ВЫ ТОГО СТОИТЕ

Если Вы сами не верите в себя, то как Вы можете ожидать этого от кого-то еще? Если вы хотите получить шанс найти стоящие отношения, вы должны сначала понять, что Вы столь же ценны, как и всегда были, может быть даже больше. ВИЧ не изменяет или уменьшает Ваших плюсы и минусы.

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